Are Couples Closer or Farther Apart? It’s Both
“(I need) a more supportive spouse who understands that just because I’m working from home doesn’t mean I get to be responsible for all of the housework and childcare. My job still needs to get done.
“… I wish I had a support system. Dealing with everything on my own and walking on eggshells around my husband is hard emotionally.”
”…I love that I am working less and bringing in less money, and my spouse isn’t complaining about it.”
“Spending more time with my daughter and spouse. Bonding with spouse over how to relax.”
Over 1,200 parents shared their pandemic stories since March. The majority (92%) are Mothers (95%) and either married (85%) or live with their partner (7%.) As they continue to work without childcare, breaks or diversions, most crave more “time,” “sleep” and “quiet,” preferably “alone” for their wellbeing. And with their villages at a social distance, they expect hands-on solidarity from their partners.
Every marriage has its fault lines. And with the pressure of home becoming the default office, school and play space, it can feel like a sanctuary or cage. Overall, surveyed parents report more conflict and resentment. Yet, surprisingly, some couples are thriving in Continue reading “Social Distance Does not Make the Heart Grow Fonder”